Friday, August 29, 2008

Mumbai Meri Jaan…. A review

Posted by astuti at 2:29 PM 5 comments

It was one of those “oh-so-rare” days when both Umang and I were back from work by 6.30 P.M. We decided to catch a movie and man did I love the results of this impulsive decision. :)

Yes I am a gonner and now a committed fan of the director Nishikant Kamat. Seriously there are dialogues and then there are Dialogues… And this movie is filled with them… Some that I recollect very vividly are:
Kay Kay’s remark on “Do you know the difference between Sharon Stone and Kidney Stone?”

Paresh Rawal’s comment many a times in the movie "When you feel like crying, just urinate", adding, "That way you drain the excess water from your body".

And his comment later in the film (after the bomb blasts) where he says “we cant shut the bars; where will the spirit of Mumbai come from!” (Quite a pun I say)

Amidst romance and seeing life through rosy-spectacled films, only once in a while do we come across a movie which strikes a chord with a social theme and is enormously entertaining at the same time. Only once in a while do we come across a movie that has an outstandingly original screenplay and more importantly it connects with the viewer convincingly. Only once in a while do we come across a movie that incites us emotionally and is technically flawless simultaneously. That's Mumbai Meri Jaan to me!!!

There were some technical expertises that I just loved… Brilliant screenplay and even better compositions… For instance right after the scene where they show train blasts, rather than show the date in the original bollywood style Aka as a type written subtitle, the director decides to show us a train bogie number plate “7/11”.

Similarly when Soha Ali’s being asked to give a byte on how she feels (after the death of her fiancé’) the scene shows her reflection on tile which is walked over by the other characters in the film.

Very simple yet very strong, the film makes you look back at what happened and feel for the city.

Much against your predictable perception, the film moves away from any opinionated or political argument on terrorism and traverses a more atomic approach by representing the ordeal of the violence in five individual lives. Each episode runs independent of the other until they are correlated by the train blasts. The parallel tracks beautifully congregate to a common climax.

The writing doesn't resort to any clichés or pre-defined formulae thereby opting for an innovative, unadulterated and gratifying treatment. No song numbers, comedy tracks or romance angles are enforced for commercial considerations. The ending couldn’t have been better, with an All-time-classic song “Yeh hain Mumbai meri jaan”. Cheers, the spirit of Mumbai will always remain intact!

I lurved the movie and recommend it to any serious film appreciators. It’s surely a must watch.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

Posted by astuti at 1:04 PM 3 comments

Some writeups down the memory lane....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra.. A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...One friend who Always makes her Laugh... And one Who lets her cry...A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE Eight matching plates,Wine glasses with stems, And a recipe for a meal that will Make her guests feel honored.

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...A feeling of control over Her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...How to fall in love Without losing herself...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...How to quit a Job, Break up with a lover and confront a friend without ruining the friendship. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...When to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...That she can't changeThe length of her calves,The width of her hips, or The nature of her parents...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...That her childhood May not have been Perfect..but;Its over...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...What she would and Wouldn't Do for love or more...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...How to live alone...even if She doesn't like it...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...Whom she can trust, Whom she can't, And why she shouldn't Take it personally...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...Where to go When her soul needs soothing...Be it to her best friend's kitchen table..Or a charming inn in the woods...!

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...What she can and can't accomplish
In a day... A month.. And a year...

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Men Are Just Happier People...:)

Posted by astuti at 3:59 PM 7 comments

What do you expect from such simple creatures? Your last name stays put. The garage is all yours. Wedding plans take care of themselves. Chocolate is just another snack. You can be President. You can never be pregnant. You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park. You can wear NO shirt to a water park.

Car mechanics tell you the truth.. The world is your urinal. You never have to drive to another gas station rest-room because this one is just too icky. You don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt. Same work, more pay. Wrinkles add character. Wedding dress Rs. 5000. People never stare at your chest when you're talking to them. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle your feet. One mood all the time. Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat. You know stuff about tanks. A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase. You can open all your own jars. You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness.

If someone forgets to invite you, he or she can still be your friend. Three pairs of shoes are more than enough. You almost never have strap problems in public. You are unable to see wrinkles in your clothes. Everything on your face stays its original color. The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades.You only have to shave your face and neck.You can play with toys all your life. Your belly usually hides your big hips. One wallet and one pair of shoes -- one color for all seasons. You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look. You can "do" your nails with a pocket knife. You have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache. You can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25 minutes.

Phewww..... No wonder men are happier. :)

Getting perspective

Posted by astuti at 3:49 PM 0 comments
I read this article somewhere and wanted to share it with all of you...

No matter what difficulties you encounter, you can benefit from clearing your mind so that your true inner voice is revealed. There are several ways of gaining this focus, including physical exercise, meditation, breathing exercises, yoga, and others. The exercise below involves a more active form of mediation that will quickly clear out the noise in your head to leave you with a knowingness that can guide you to right action in your relationships and throughout your life.

Step 1:Get yourself in a comfortable sitting position.

Step 2:Picture a chord that goes around your waist and into the center of the earth. This is your grounding chord. Feel the weight of it pull you down into the earth, so that you are connected to it.

Step 3:Picture green light coming from the earth — the earth's energy, moving slowly from your feet, to your knees, and finally arriving at your stomach. Imagine that it starts a swirling motion in your center.

Step 4:Now picture white light coming from above, shining down on you and moving through the crown of your head, to your shoulders, flowing down your arms and also down your spine and to your stomach, where it mixes with the green light you brought up from the earth.

Step 5:Imagine a flow of light moving down the grounding chord and into the earth, and let it carry away all the things you are worried about, all the conflicts you have. Picture them in full life form and then watch as they wash away in the flood of light that leaves your body.

Step 6:Once you have done this for some time, picture the rest of the light from your stomach moving up to leave through the crown of your head, finishing the clearing of your energy. That means you can stop drawing in light or energy from the earth and from above you.

Step 7:Sit in quiet relaxation for a few minutes, noting what it is like to be in a body that is clear and a mind that is without worries and anxiety. If worries come back at you, just note that they are there, and watch as they flow right past you without bothering you a bit.

Step 8:Now you are ready to look at whatever issue you are dealing with, or to attend to any
questions you might have.

For example, if you are not sure about the person you are with, ask yourself: Are they right for you? Is this relationship having a positive effect on your life? Is this person being fair? Are you? This is the time to ask yourself all the questions that have been creating tension for you. Sit patiently and wait as your higher self tells you the answers.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Spiritually Speaking…

Posted by astuti at 3:52 PM 5 comments

How many times have you felt a sense of complete despair? How many times do you feel your life’s not going anywhere and that some direction would be appreciated? How many times do you feel a need for Supreme intervention?
Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're in the perfect position to pray…

Before I move on, I would like to warn anyone who does not believe in God, to not go any further. This piece of work, kind sire’, was not written for you. So please go ahead and find some thing else to read, No offense taken!

I am a strong believer. I believe there is a Supreme Being out there, who takes care of all of us. Who’s stronger than any of us; and looking at the things we do. I have a superstitious belief that he’ll know when I am being bad. I know you think it’s just my “Conscience”! But it’s not my conscience alone, believe me you- it’s far more than that. When I am doing “Something I shouldn’t be doing”; my conscience is supposed to make me feel guilty right? But then when events happen that wouldn’t have happened otherwise, you have to believe there is someone taking account of what you’re doing.

I don’t say everything we do is controlled by this someone. There obviously is a system of “Free Will”; but just as certainly there is, what I call the control system. Metaphorically speaking, we are like a cow tied to a tree by a rope, and can go just about anywhere till the rope permits; but only till that. The ultimate control is with someone else. So he’ll allow you to make your mistakes, but will not allow you to go way beyond what’s in your destiny.

So the question I'm getting at is, if he controls what I do and knows what I’m meant to do, why can’t he make life easier for me and show me the way when I am feeling a sense of despair…. When will he lead me on to "my" direction? When will he really intervene?

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Stranger things have happened- Inspirational

Posted by astuti at 6:22 PM 1 comments

A friend of mine sent this song for me to listen to; and it immediately became my new favourite… Ofcourse it's “Stranger Things Have Happened” by Foo Fighters.

I just love the lines in this song… Some of them are “I’m breathing in the silence like never before”…. It’s an emotion that’s so beautiful you can’t help but identify with it…

“I’m not alone dear loneliness” “Dear Loneliness?” Wow! Isn’t that a lovely use of Irony? It inspires me to speak to my feelings. I wonder if it does the same to you.

“I can change, I can change, I can change, but who do you want me to be?” How many times have I felt this…? Yes I can change, but change into what? And if I am like others who will be like me?

Like I said before I really did love this song. As self obsessed as I am about my feelings, my likes and myself in general, I can’t help but think, is this what life has in store for us?

Monday, August 4, 2008

WORDS RULE!!!

Posted by astuti at 12:25 PM 1 comments
One of the paragraphs I wrote almost 4 yrs back... But it's still close to my heart! read on...

"Words are the most twisted art I know… and I love it! Not surprisingly, I am a copywriter. As a writer, I always thought books were interesting reading for the end of the week. I respect the discipline and persistence it takes to create long works like novels and screenplays even though I have no desire to write anything longer than a brochure. Advertising copywriting suits me perfectly. However, I was struck by certain similarities-Both a great ad and a great book starts with a great idea. Both are written without pondering to a hidden market. Both must be fundamentally believable and faithful to the concept. And neither has a place for cynicism. It’s amazing what both can do the reader… They can influence there moods, thoughts and even behavior.

There’s a ton of creative concepts just waiting 2 hit the shop, check them now… check again later, ‘coz we aim 2 cr8 chaos in the world of words! Hmmm complete chaos is the hidden agenda!!!"
 

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