Monday, July 1, 2013

Pixie Dust will now manufacture at.... Drum Rolls.... La Petite!

Posted by astuti at 12:29 PM 0 comments
I have been canvassing the vicinity for a good play school for Ami. I must have seen at least ten and spoken to another half a dozen on phone and finally this weekend we chose La Petite.

I'm going to try and walk you thru my decision. Or an account on 'here's why I did it'... Well originally I had a thing about BIG names! La Petite was GD Goenka and I wasn't looking for a 'brand' for the play school I send my daughter to. But then they won me over in ways I feel is hard to explain but I'm sure going to try...

Active Management: I liked the involvement of the management. The fact that I visited them when the school was off & the Principal was available to talk to me the first time around (when most of her teachers were on a break), appealed to me. She painstakingly spent more than half an hour with me answering all kinds of basic questions I had, about the set up and convinced me that my child would be in good hands.

Clean & Hygienic: Some of the playschools in the vicinity have sooo much promise- there activities for toddlers are really something(some maybe La Petite should look into & ape), but they loose out on this factor which to me is a very important criteria for where I send my daughter. Don't get me wrong, I don't expect hospital like antiseptic-dettoled up everything, but if my child is to spend 3 hrs of her day everyday in any place, I expect it to be clean enough for her to keep going back day-after-day without falling sick. Play schools are known to have the hazard of infections, through contact with other kids but can we minimize it please? So La Petite won that one for me hands down  It was THE most clean play school I visited in the last 3 weeks.

Montessori: It is a Montessori play school and I like the fact that they have a lot of these materials in all their classrooms. I think this subtle way of teaching is far more effective in someways. (A footnote follows)

Daycare: They had a decent daycare facility for kids. Not something I need immediately but I liked the fact that if sometime in the future I do decide to go back to working, my daughter will have a nice daycare facility readily available in a place she would be used to. 

Happy place: Somehow this was the crux of the whole thing for me. From friendly staff to brightly lit classrooms and corridors, sandpits to splash pools, activity room in the basement to pottery wheels outside; everything about the place just committed happiness to me. It just screamed that Ami will be happy here. 

And at the end of the day isn't that, what all parents want? That when our child returns home, we can go down on our knees and ask him/her, not "What did you learn today?" but "Was school fun? Are you happy?"  I know I'll be happy if my child just nods, smiles & wants to go back the next day. :)

Footnote: 
Maria Montessori's story: A little girl once saw a wet sticky caterpillar trying to come out of a cocoon. She kept watching with wonder. The caterpillar gradually tried to spread out its wings waiting for them to dry. In order to help the caterpillar she brought a fan to hasten the process and enable the caterpillar to dry the wings faster and with ease.

The caterpillar’s wings drying unevenly and in haste did not open at all and the caterpillar toppled over, never to fly as a butterfly.

The girl learnt a huge lesson that day, that nurture has to be a very aware and conscious process according to the natural needs and growth pattern of the child. It cannot be as what we think it should be, at our convenient time and according to our unreal expectations .

La Petite is situated at Malibu Towne, Sohna Rd, Gurgaon.

Friday, June 28, 2013

Nan Khattais & Mocha Chocolate Almond Cookies

Posted by astuti at 3:38 PM 0 comments
So I woke up this morning with a craving to make some cookies... So quickly before my mood changed, I got the ingredients for the cookies together and started the process. Thought I'll stick with the tried and tested Nan khattais but once I had 3/4 batches of that done, I got into the mood for experimenting. The lovely weather- with Sun playing peekaboo from behind the clouds helped of course! :) I decided to also try making Mocha-Chocolate-Almond Cookies. I'm happy to report that they turned out pretty okay and I even managed to get them out without burning... It took me 3 hrs to finish with my last batch of cookies but must say it was a day well spent. Plus there's the added perk- my kitchen smells heavenly with all the baking done. :)







Tuesday, May 14, 2013

You are known by what you are on the social media...

Posted by astuti at 9:23 PM 0 comments
Over the years I have heard lots of sayings like "you are known by the friends you keep... The food you eat... The thoughts you think!" But quite outta-the-blue I realised today that some people perceive others, by the image they keep on the social media.. Yup! I had a "You are known by what you are on the social media" kinnda moment! :) And it made me stop to wonder- how did that happen? 

My journey into social media, like most Indians my age, started with Orkut. There was the occassional yahoo chat, msn messenger etc before that; but somehow that had a one-on-one personalised touch about it that is not really sooo prominent in social medias today. Orkut was very soon replaced by facebook and also twitter (which I'm still trying to get my head around :))! But what I'm still trying to figure out is how did adding me as your facebook friend become the only way of knowing me..? And when did commenting or liking my status get equalant to picking the phone to say "Hi!"??? 

When I called someone today, after ages, instead of the usual "What's up with you? Haven't heard from you in forever!" which I kinnda expected him to say; I heard "I know all about you & your daughter. Is there anything else happening in your life?" And it took me a little by surprise... I almost found it border-line rude. I mean, I was ready to apologize for putting up pictures of my baby girl on my own facebook account. But then it also made me feel kinnda weird... He thinks of me as nothing more than a mommy? (Even if that was really true) Why was he perceiving me by the status and pictures I had put up? And if he was doing this, then, that's probably what the other 400 odd "friends" were doing too... Weirdly it felt like I was being type casted or "Mummyfied" really! 

Social Media does that to you huh? People are known by the number of facebook friends they have or twitter followers or tweet handles... Aren't they? 

Oh! I'm really not the person against facebook or twitter or someone who's giving gyaan on how social media is taking over socialising perse... I guess all I'm saying is, that personally I would really like to be perceived as more than what I am on the social media... It is a part of me, it is definitely not ALL I am!!! :) So go ahead and make a pencil draft of me by the impressions you get of me on the social media, BUT get to know me a little more, before you write that down with a permanent marker...! ;)
 

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